Ang saya no, kung yung boyfriend/girlfriend mo parang tropa mo lang? Yung bang kada magkasama kayo, OO sweet, OO halatang kayo pero kung pagmamasdan mo sa mga kilos parang tropa lang, bestfriend, magkapatid ganun. Tapos bawat bagay na gagawin nyo adventure lang, yun bang sususbukan nyo lahat ng…
"Sometimes you just need to cry and be sad. You need to break down and be torn apart. You need to learn to pick yourself up and put yourself back together. Sometimes, the only way to be happy is to give into sadness first, because without sadness, there is no happiness; you would never learn to smile."
"You don’t need anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you — it’s something inherent.
You exist, and therefore, you matter. You’re allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You’re allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise."
"After someone hurts you, you’re not the same anymore."
The latest from Sharmaine Llamas (@maaaine_). SHARM. 17. 09/25/95. BSBA FinMan, SLU Baguio. Dagupan City
"When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you’ll never get back. Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give someone is your time."
Love a humble man. Someone who lets you win on a chess game. Someone who chases you when you walked out of the bar. Someone who can hug you in the rain even if there are people throwing awkward gazes on you. Someone who doesn’t brag how many girlfriends she had before you unless he’s making fun of you. Someone who doesn’t brag how toned his abs are unless he wants to cuddle with you.
In reality, you can never be sure of when, why or how are you going to have arguments, and sometimes you just want to be chased and feel important. And it’s good to find a humble man who doesn’t care how many times he chased you as long as you come back, for a reason that when talking about love, he doesn’t know what pride means.
Alam mo ung nakakatawa sa mga babae? Bago sila mapamahal sa isang lalaki, mararamdaman mo ung pagkakaiba iba nila. May matataray na hindi mo nakikitang ngumiti pag wala ung mga kaibigan niya, may mahihinhin na hindi mo nakikitang tumatawa ng malakas, may mga matatalino na hindi mo makikitang walang binabasang libro, may mga malulupit na fan girl na hindi mo makikitang hindi kinukwento ung crush niyang artista/anime/banda at may mga boyish na ang angas.
Pero pag yan nahulog sa isang lalaki. Lahat sila magagalit dahil sa selos, iiyak dahil hindi hinabol, mag iinarte pag tinatanong kung san kakain, magtatampu-tampuhan para lambingin, lahat sila makakaramdam ng pagwawala ng tiyan nila tuwing sasabihan mo ng "Mahal kita.", lahat sila mamumula ang pisngi pag niyakap mo at lahat sila gagawin ang lahat para lang maramdaman mo ung pagmamahal nila.
Ika nga nila, kapag dating sa pagmamahal, pantay pantay ang lahat ng tao. Kahit gano pa yan kataray at palatawa noon, pag nasaktan yan, iiyak yan at pag kinilig yan, mamumula yan.
Kaya bilang lalaki, wag na wag mong sasabihing hindi mo maintindihan ang isang babae, kasi madali lang silang basahin, tamad ka lang talaga gumawa ng paraan.
Love an honest man. Someone who would tell you that he’s in a party, that’s why he can’t reply on your messages or answer your calls instead of saying he’s busy studying. Someone who would tell you that he’s tired, that’s why he can’t chase you instead of just killing you with awkward silence. Someone who would tell you his current relationship with her “best friend” instead of lying about everything when you can clearly see the truth that he’s cheating. Someone who would explain things the way they did it, not the way they think you should understand it.
Yes, he may appear insensitive, but you should be thankful for having someone like him because if he can be honest with his mishaps, no wonder that the sweet I love you’s and I miss you’s were indeed true. And if things came to worst that you have to say goodbye, you would not be too much in despair because everything that happened were indeed true.
Trust is the most essential thing in terms of relationship, and love starts with trust, and trust starts with honesty. It’s hard to trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust.
The latest from Sharmaine Llamas (@sharmainellamas). I’m perfect in my imperfections, secure in my insecurities, happy in my pain, strong in my weaknesses & beautiful in my own way. Dagupan City, Pangasinan